3 Strategies to Attract
Opportunities into Your Life
Feeling stagnant?
You don’t attract opportunities because you are
not upgrading
I often get asked by my coaching clients: “How
can I get more opportunities in my life?”
This is a really important question. New
opportunities enable us to advance in our lives and careers as a result of an
abundance of options to choose from. In the case where we seldom get a chance
to upgrade our current situation through new possibilities, it is a common
occurrence to feel stagnant, unhappy and unproductive.
Most people will assume that inability to
attract opportunities is directly tied to lack of passion and merely
waiting for a miracle to appear out of the blue. However, this is not the
entire truth. There are two elements to successfully attracting new
opportunities.
Want
progress? Do something new and work on your ‘attractiveness’
“To
get something you never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.”
–Unknown.
This thought-provoking statement suggests that
people stay in their own comfort zone and fail to broaden their horizons. As a
result, they often resign from their plans too early and settle for mediocrity.
Surprisingly, these are often disciplined people who work hard for their living
and are respected members of our society.
The second and not-so-obvious element is the
fact that our inner self reflects in our external environment. The truth is you
have to shift existing behaviors and mindset in order to attract opportunities.
Favorable circumstances and success come to the ‘attractive’ people who develop
‘inner beauty’, often meet new people, build new relationships and form new
business partnerships. It is vital to work on personal development and on
character development.
Apply these
3 strategies to attract new opportunities
1. Surround
yourself with success.
There is a saying: “You earn the average income of the 5 people
you spend the most time with”. Your environment is crucial to your happiness.
Successful people have winning habits, strategies and ‘attractive’
personalities. By spending time with them, you will subconsciously start to
model these behaviors. Likewise, negative people significantly impact their
surroundings, often lacking ambition and spreading pessimistic thoughts.
2. Get out of your comfort
zone.
Staying in a familiar environment is comfortable
because you know what to expect. However, by not stepping out of a comfortable
environment, new things will seldom occur in your life. The aim is to create
opportunities by stepping outside the comfort zone instead of waiting for them.
Otherwise, your life will be nothing more than comfortable. Stepping outside of
your comfort zone will allow you to meet new people and attract a whole array
of new situations.
3. Perform
daily routines to shape your character.
A strong and attractive character is a result of
systematic practice. One of my favorite quotes is “where attention goes, energy flows – results show”.Good
conduct and behavior are results of our thoughts and habits. If you are able to
set out behaviors that you will repeat daily, your character will be
transformed and opportunities will appear as a result. For instance, you could
have a morning and evening routines to prioritize and reflect on your current
tasks.
How to
succeed in the long-term? Use self-reflection and be consistent
Usually people regret things they didn’t do when
they had the chance to try. Attracting new opportunities is not down to just
luck – step
out of your comfort zone and start working
on a brand of attractiveness which consists of your character, heart and
spirit. The key is to do monthly or quarterly self-reflection activities to
evaluate your progress and analyze new areas requiring development. It is
important to be systematic in your actions, as they will increase your chances
in the long term to attract plenty of new opportunities.
BY YIWEN CYRUS
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