10 Habits Remarkable People Give Up Every Day
If
you are experiencing any kind of setback or failure, you can get yourself back
in the groove. Here's how many people do it daily.
We all have bad days--in our lives, our work, and our leadership.
And sometimes we have really bad days, or a succession of them--enough to knock
us far off track. They can take a lot of forms:
You
didn't get the funding for your startup.
Someone
else received the promotion you wanted.
The
feedback on your performance review was less than excellent.
You've
been laid off, or worse, you have been fired.
When you get off track, it seems impossible to ever pull
yourself together and get to where you need to be.
What we need to do is learn from those who know how to give up
on unhealthy habits, an ability which makes them remarkable.
Here is how they do
it:
1. Remarkable people give up playing it safe.
No
one has ever achieved greatness by playing it safe. And ironically, in this
very rapidly changing world, playing it safe is one of the riskiest things you
can do. To get back on track means being brave and fearless, because playing it
safe is deciding you don't want to grow anymore.
2. Remarkable people give up self-doubt.
The
truth, of course, is that everyone experiences self-doubt at times. But you
can't allow your doubt to keep you stuck. Remind yourself of how far you've
come, remember everything you've been through and had to face, think about the
battles you've won and all the fears you've overcome. Don't give doubt room to
take hold.
3. Remarkable people give up being baffled.
When
things don't work out and when they go wrong, it's because there is something
for you to learn. But you can't learn if you're stuck trying the same thing
over and over. Break free and approach problems from a different direction.
4. Remarkable people give up self-judgment.
Judging
anyone harshly--especially yourself--is never useful, and being overly critical
is never productive. If you feel like everyone else is judging you, ask
yourself if you're really hearing your own voice. Treat yourself with the
compassion and care you'd give to someone else.
5. Remarkable people give up disillusionment.
Nothing
worthwhile is easy; the most difficult challenges are often the most rewarding
and satisfying.
6. Remarkable people give up being controlled by others. It
might be tempting to let others make decisions for you, especially when you
feel off track, but if anything, that creates even bigger problems. Tap into
your own passion to move beyond the obstacles in your way.
7. Remarkable people give up being stuck.
Letting
go does not mean giving up but accepting there are things in life that should
not be. Letting go is often what it takes to become stronger, happier, and more
successful in the long run.
8. Remarkable people give up being derailed.
Try
to focus on what you are aiming at instead of what is derailing you.
9. Remarkable people give up negativity.
Positive
thinking isn't about expecting the best thing to happen every time; it's about
accepting that whatever happens is good for the moment and then making the best
of it. Be positive and give up focusing on what is negative.
10. Remarkable people give up being perfect.
Know
that we all have two choices: Either we do nothing and give into
procrastination, or we start chasing our dreams, our visions, our ideas. Begin
by doing something, don't wait for perfect. Even if it's not exactly the right
direction, just get up and start moving.
When you find yourself off track--and most of us do--realize
there are some remarkable people who have great daily habits that can teach us
a thing or two.
BY LOLLY DASKAL
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