Facebook is bad for you - and giving up using it will
make you happier
In the past few years, the fortunate
among us have recognised the hazards of living with an overabundance of food
(obesity, diabetes) and have started to change our diets. But most of us do not
yet understand that Facebook is to the mind what sugar is to the body. Facebook
feed is easy to digest. It has made it easy to consume small bites of trivial
matter, tidbits that don't really concern our lives and don't require thinking.
That's why we experience almost no saturation. Unlike reading books and long
magazine articles (which require thinking), we can swallow limitless quantities
of photos and status updates, which are bright-coloured candies for the mind.
Sadly, we are still far away from beginning to recognise how toxic Facebook can
be.
Facebook misleads. Take the following event (borrowed from a Facebook friend).
A bloke you knew in high school, whom you’ve not met or spoken to in real life
since you left high school, has got married. He posts pictures of his wedding
taken by a snazzy professional photographer. The pictures gather hundreds of
likes and comments. Your friends shower your high school mate with
congratulations. There are discussions about the bride’s dress, the tasty food,
the fancy hotel, but absolutely no one knows that the reason they are really
getting married is because the bride is pregnant with your mate’s baby.
Facebook leads us to walk around with the completely wrong idea about our
friends’ lives. So holiday pictures are over-liked. Stressful outbursts go
unshared. A new job is immediately updated. Being fired is never made note of.
Your friends might subscribe to a lot of “Causes”. In real life they do nothing
about those causes.
We are not rational enough to be
exposed to Facebook. Watching a video of your mother in a dance club is going
to change your attitude towards your parents, regardless of your real
relationship with them. If you think you can compensate with the strength of
your own inner contemplation, you are wrong. Bankers and investors – who have
powerful incentives to keep you hooked so that Facebook can make a profit –
have shown that they cannot. The only solution: cut yourself off from using
Facebook entirely.
Facebook is irrelevant. Out of the approximately 10,000 status updates, links or
photos that you have accessed on Facebook in the last 12 months, name one that
– because you consumed it – allowed you to make a better decision about a
serious matter affecting your life, your career or your business. The point is:
the consumption of the “feed” is irrelevant to you. But people find it very
difficult to recognise what's relevant. It's much easier to recognise what's
new. The relevant versus the new is the fundamental battle of the current age.
Facebook wants you to believe that using Facebook Home will make your life
better. Many fall for that. We get anxious when we're cut off from the flow of
the news feed. In reality, Facebook consumption is a competitive disadvantage.
The less time you spend on Facebook, the bigger the advantage you have.
Facebook has no real power. Notifications are bubbles popping on the surface of the real
world. Will accumulating facts about your friends help you understand what is
happening in their life? Sadly, no. The relationship is inverted. The important
stories are not shared on Facebook: people are actually desperately alone. The
more “factoids” you digest about your friend, the less alone you think you will
feel. But if more information about your friends leads to happiness, we’d
expect Facebook users with the most friends to be at the top of the pyramid.
That's not the case.
Facebook is toxic to your body. It constantly triggers the limbic system. New pictures on
Facebook spur the release of cascades of glucocorticoid (cortisol). This
deregulates your immune system and inhibits the release of growth hormones. In
other words, your body finds itself in a state of chronic stress even though
you are feeling good. High glucocorticoid levels cause impaired digestion, lack
of growth (cell, hair, bone), nervousness and susceptibility to infections. The
other potential side-effects include fear, aggression, tunnel-vision and
desensitisation.
Facebook increases cognitive errors. Facebook feeds the mother of all cognitive errors:
confirmation bias. In the words of Warren Buffett: “What the human being is
best at doing is interpreting all new information so that their prior
conclusions remain intact.” Links your similar minded friends share exacerbates
this flaw. We become prone to overconfidence, take stupid risks and misjudge
opportunities. It also exacerbates another cognitive error: the story bias. Our
brains crave stories that “make sense” – even if they don't correspond to
reality. Any of your friend who writes, “Terrorists should be bombed” or “Cut
the rapists penises” is an idiot. I am fed up with this cheap way of “solving”
the world’s problems.
Facebook inhibits thinking. Thinking requires concentration. Concentration requires
uninterrupted time. Facebook notifications are specifically engineered to
interrupt you. They are like viruses that steal attention for their own
purposes. Cute cat pictures makes us shallow thinkers. But it's worse than
that. Facebook severely affects memory. There are two types of memory.
Long-range memory's capacity is nearly infinite, but working memory is limited
to a certain amount of slippery data. The path from short-term to long-term
memory is a choke-point in the brain, but anything you want to understand must
pass through it. If this passageway is disrupted, nothing gets through. Because
Facebook disrupts concentration, it weakens comprehension. Friends who share
too much have an even worse impact. Why? Because whenever a link appears, your
brain has to at least make the choice not to click, which in itself is
distracting. Facebook is an intentional interruption system.
Facebook works like a drug. As stories develop, we want to know how they continue. With
hundreds of your friends’ storylines in our heads, this craving is increasingly
compelling and hard to ignore. Scientists used to think that the dense
connections formed among the 100 billion neurons inside our skulls were largely
fixed by the time we reached adulthood. Today we know that this is not the
case. Nerve cells routinely break old connections and form new ones. The more
time we spend on Facebook, the more we exercise the neural circuits devoted to
skimming and multitasking while ignoring those used for reading deeply and
thinking with profound focus. Most Facebook users – even if they used to be
avid book readers – have lost the ability to absorb lengthy articles or books.
After four, five pages they get tired, their concentration vanishes, they
become restless. It's not because they got older or their schedules became more
onerous. It's because the physical structure of their brains has changed.
Facebook wastes time. If you check Facebook for 15 minutes each morning, then
check it again for 15 minutes during lunch and 15 minutes before you go to bed,
then add five minutes here and there when you're at work, then count distraction
and refocusing time, you will lose at least half a day every week. Good
Instagram pictures are no longer a scarce commodity. But attention is. You are
not that irresponsible with your money, reputation or health. Why give away
your mind?
Facebook makes us passive. Facebook status updates are overwhelmingly about things you
cannot influence. The daily repetition of notifications about things we can't
act upon makes us passive. It grinds us down until we adopt a worldview that is
pessimistic, desensitised, sarcastic and fatalistic. The scientific term is
“learned helplessness”. It's a bit of a stretch, but I would not be surprised
if Facebook use, at least partially contributes to the widespread disease of
depression.
Facebook kills creativity. I don't know a single truly creative mind who is a Facebook
addict – not a writer, not a composer, mathematician, physician, scientist,
musician, designer, architect or painter. On the other hand, I know a bunch of
viciously uncreative minds who consume Facebook like drugs.
Society needs social cohesion — but
in a different way. Meeting friends in pub is almost always fun. We need people
to spend time together in real life rather than in front of screens. Only then
can we have meaningful relationships.
Deleting your Facebook profile is
not easy, but it’s worth it.
This write-up is an almost copy of this article with some relevant
changes, in case you hadn’t realised. It seems news is not as bad as Facebook, after all.
Science
& Tech hack. Contributes to @TheEconomist, @ArsTechnica & @The_Hindu. http://akshatrathi.com
Published April 16, 2013
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