BOOK
SUMMARY 389
The Future of
Happiness
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Summary written by: Karen Draghi
"We are in the midst of an incredible
digital revolution that is rapidly morphing the landscape of daily life with
new time-saving tech tools for productivity, efficiency, and communication.
These tools should be fueling our happiness levels, but that doesn’t always
seem to be the case. In fact, the timing of the digital revolution coincides
with record-setting levels of depression and overall life
dissatisfaction."
- The Future of Happiness, page 10
The digital age has had an enormous impact on us. Many of
the changes brought about by technology have affected our society in negative
ways. On the other hand, there are so many good things that technology provides
for us to enhance our lives. The key then is to learn ways to minimize the
negative impact on our lives and harness the incredible power of digital tools
to become healthier, more productive and happier. And happier is definitely
possible if we learn to manage the technology in our lives rather than let the
technology “manage” us.
Author Amy Blankson, and her brother, Shawn Achor,
co-founded the company GoodThink to use the principles of positive psychology
to help people become happier. She has devoted years of research to find
ways we can combine positive psychology and technology to live happier lives.
The Golden Egg
Your future happiness can be increased by strategic use
of technology
"The most balanced, satisfied, and happy individuals
use five key strategies, not just to survive but also to actually thrive in the
Digital Era..."- The Future of Happiness, pages 20-21
We can’t deny the problems and negative changes brought
about by the digital revolution. The number of people in America who suffer
depression has dramatically increased. There are four times as many obese
teenagers as before. Children are glued to digital devices for an average of 6
plus hours per day, radically changing the way they are growing up. Health problems
such as insomnia, eyestrain, hand and neck pain are becoming quite common.
We’ve become addicted to our devices. Most of us have a difficult, if not
impossible time leaving home without at least one device—our phones.
Amy Blankson has interviewed many people about the impact
of technology on their lives. From executives to stay-at-home mothers, from
children to seniors, she found that the happiest people didn’t live lives
removed from all things digital. Rather, they have specific strategies
for how, when and where they will use technology to increase their
productivity, personal growth, happiness and improve their health. These are
the five things that individuals are doing to thrive in the Digital Era:
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First, they stay grounded
in the face of distraction.
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Second, they use technology
to know themselves on a deeper level.
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Third, they know when and
how to use technology to train their brains to reach their full potential.
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Fourth, they structure
their surroundings to create a habitat for happiness.
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Fifth, they innovate
consciously to enrich the world around them.
Gem #1
Create boundaries around our use of technology
"What’s the greatest enemy of being productive and
staying grounded? Distraction. … In 2013, the National Center for Biotechnology
Information reported that the average attention span of a human had dropped to
a mere eight seconds (from twelve seconds in 2000); meanwhile, the average
attention span of a goldfish is nine seconds."- The Future of Happiness,
pages 27-28
Our productivity is greatly affected by our lack of
focus. We deal with an ever-increasing amount of distraction, every day. And
our digital devices are a big part of the problem. We check our phones all day
long, even when we have no calls or alerts. Many of us sleep with our phones next
to the bed and even more of us check email when we should be sleeping.
We can create better conditions for productivity in our
lives if we establish some rules for ourselves regarding our use of digital
devices. Limiting how often we’ll be interrupted by email, social media alerts
and news will create less distraction. Planning times when we won’t use tech
devices will give our brains downtime to process everything they take in.
We can be healthier and more productive by using our
goals and values to establish our intentions for each day. Using our priorities
to drive our days and weeks will keep us more centered and growing in the
direction we desire. This will help to reduce the stress created by just
responding to the incessant prompts of our digital devices.
Gem #2
Track what you want to improve
"Self-knowledge is power. … Technology can help you
understand your full potential by helping you to track key information about
your habits and then use that information to fuel your growth."- The
Future of Happiness, page 54
Every day we make hundreds of small decisions. Many of
our decisions are made while operating on auto-pilot, out of habit. These
choices are often influenced by our learned beliefs, incomplete knowledge, and
incorrect assumptions. By logging and tracking information from the various
realms of our lives, we have more accurate information with which to make our
decisions.
Today we’re using devices and apps to log the number of
steps we take, what we’re eating, habits we’re building, how much sleep we’re
getting, and we can even track our breathing patterns. In our homes, we’re
tracking air quality and how much energy we’re using.
We are doing more logging and tracking in many areas and
this information can be a powerful tool. It can help us make better-informed
decisions, create healthier habits, help us become a better version of
ourselves—and a happier one.
The Future of Happiness has
a very important message for each one of us. Technology is here to stay and the
growth of digital devices and apps will be exponential in the years to come. We
can either let technology drive us in a mindless and addicted fashion or we can
use it in a purposeful manner to become healthier and happier.
Which path will you take?
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