The One Practice That Will Help
You Face with Every Challenge Much More Easily
Do you see a challenge and immediately start feeling anxious? Do you worry
that you won’t be able to make your dreams come true because of the roadblocks
in your path? We’ve all been there—but you don’t have to keep looking at
problems in the same way forever—value-based affirmations have the potential to
make your life a lot easier.
It can be very difficult to prepare yourself
for a challenge or roadblock, because emotions can so easily take
over. This can paralyze your decision-making, and make it difficult for
you to find the best solution or meet the challenge head on. While simply
taking a deep breath and diving in might seem like the best way to proceed, it
doesn’t help you find the right solution or help dispel your anxiety about the
situation.
We all have challenges and goals in life, but
if you don’t have a method for meeting these challenges, then you may not be
able to achieve success as often as you’d like. The good news is that there’s
one simple (but not easy) practice that will help you face any challenge you
come across: value-based affirmation. This practice will help you lead a more
empowering and focused life, and you’ll likely experience less stress by having
a method for meeting challenges head on. So how does it work?
Visualizing what you want beyond the
roadblocks is the key to overcome them
Mindset has a huge impact on how you deal
with problems and challenges, and value-based affirmations affect your overall
mindset to help you succeed.2 So how does value-based
affirmation work? Basically, it is a practice in which you see the desired
result in your head before you begin a task. The idea is to affirm your own
values before you begin in order to be more open to the change ahead and avoid
getting in your own way. Value affirmation may be the reason that people tend
to only make healthy changes in their lives once they’ve realized the
importance of doing so on their own—not because of someone else telling them
they should eat well, exercise, or even meditate.
This is why you need to work on visualizing
what you want, in order to overcome challenges in front of you. An example of
how value-based affirmation works would be visualizing the desired outcome of a
test (seeing an A) or running and completing a marathon—then having the
willpower and motivation to make that visualization reality. In practical
application, this can be very powerful—a friend of mine, who had twice failed
the CFA exam tried this practice—and ended up acing the test through
value-based affirmation. See the outcome, don’t say it.
Try using value-based affirmation on small
things first
Now, you can’t just start off using this
technique and expect to run a marathon immediately. You have to develop your
skills and belief in the practice before you can use it to meet a very
demanding task. Instead, try using value-based affirmation on a task that you
know you can accomplish, but is slightly challenging. Building on these
successes will allow you to develop the technique and use it to meet even the
most difficult challenges over time.
Don’t let obstacles stop you. The right
mindset helps you get through them
If you’ve ever been discouraged about
achieving your dreams, practicing value-based affirmation could help you reach
them—provided you use the technique to develop the right mindset. Many
entrepreneurs have successfully used the practice to design the future
structure and success of their business before they even get it off the ground.
Seeing the success they want allows them to face setbacks and make good
decisions during the challenging first few years in business.
Many successful celebrities have also used
mindset to become the best of the best in their industries. Michael Jordan, for
example, used a form of this technique on the road to becoming arguably the
greatest basketball player of all time. Jordan practiced the growth mindset,
which allowed him to push through innumerable setbacks. His own words sum up
why using value-based affirmations is so important to success:
“If you’re trying to achieve, there will be
roadblocks. I’ve had them; everybody has had them. But obstacles don’t have to
stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how
to climb it, go through it, or work around it.”
Visualizing that success beyond the
roadblocks is the first step in getting past them. And the best part? You don’t
need any special skills to successfully leverage this technique, and it can
work for everyone. You just have to start using it and believing it—the rest
will follow.
Ryan
Ayers
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