This Is The Surest Way
To Lead An Unsuccessful Life
It is the
annual reunion with your friends from the Class of 2014. Over a few cocktails,
some started to trash-talking their bosses and whining about how much work
sucks. You sensed that they were regret landing their
stable-yet-unexciting nine-to-five right after graduation—even though it seemed
like the best thing that had ever happened to them before…
Maybe this
sounds like one of your friends, or maybe this sounds like what you’re
struggling about. It’s okay to struggle because it’s still not too late
for a change.
Refusing
to make changes NOW means delaying success.
Hungarian
psychologist Laszlo Polgar thought he had found the major factor contributing
to the success of hundreds of intellectuals, and decided to test his hypothesis
on the three daughters of his own.
Polgar believed that “early and intensive specialisation”
was the key to being successful at what a person chose to do. He and his wife
therefore made practicing chess the focus of life for his daughters since they
were young, aiming to produce child prodigies. As expected, all three girls
became very successful chess players. On top of that, the youngest, Judit,
became the youngest Grandmaster at the age of 15, and remains the most
celebrated chess player today.
You may
not have dedicated parents like the Polgars, but you can create your own
success now if you want to. Keep in mind what you start doing today will make a
difference tomorrow.
The
routines we have and the smallest things we do every day either make us
mediocre or highly successful.
The first
step is to look at what you do without thinking on a daily basis. If you think
you are a normal human being because you get through your day just like everyone else,
it’s a sign you need to change. While being mediocre may not be a
failure, it will never mean successful.
And you
want to be successful, which is
why you should have the courage to become different from others.
Having the
same routine as others will only make you an average person, a normal, mediocre
person. Forget about having to blend in, and aim to stand out instead. Focus on
what helps you improve as a person.
Following
the rules like everybody does prevents you from achieving what you could have. Rather, try to understand the rules,
think about what these rules aim for and create your own rules that will do a
lot better. Don’t be afraid to do what others aren’t doing. Be critical for the
sake of becoming a better you.
If you want to ditch mediocrity and become successful,
break some routines and start something new today.
Changes don’t have to be big ones, especially
if we’re talking about changes in your daily routine.
For instance, you can try ordering something
different from your usual morning Cappuccino, or take a different route to
work/school. Breaking a small habit teaches you to look at things from a new
perspective.
Also, you can start trusting your instincts a
little bit more and stop second-guessing yourself. If you know what it is
that you want to do, do it at once. Sometimes, a little craziness is all you
need to get started on something that would lead to future success.
Finally, it is also important to be careful
what you feed your mind. Your goal for reading shouldn’t be to gain talking
points with your friends or co-workers, but to learn different insights that
allow you to develop your own way of thinking.
In order to be successful—to stand out and be
different, you have to know what others don’t do. You want to be unique. So
don’t just read what’s “hot” right now because it probably isn’t going to
contribute to your future success.
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