BOOK SUMMARY 44 StandOut
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Summary written by: Alyssa Burkus
“ . . . there are
patterns in you. And the most dominant – the most frequently recurring patterns
– are the source of your strengths.”
StandOut, page
23
For
many of us, learning more about how we interact well with others is key to
operating successfully in the working world. There is no shortage of
tips, surveys, and tools available to help us understand our personalities and
figure out strengths, yet many (most!) of them come with recommendations
for changes you need to make to improve your performance.
Imagine
the joy of completing a short assessment that tells you how to do more of
what you do best – to focus on the best parts of your skills and personality,
and learn how to channel those strengths when working with others.
StandOut is written by a long-time strengths expert, Marcus
Buckingham, who led the strengths development work for Gallup, creating tools
which are widely used today. In his latest, StandOut, he
takes the strengths methodology further, by looking at how we apply our strengths
in working with others, and how your top two strengths can work together to
further enhance your work.
Each
copy of StandOut comes with a unique code to access the StandOut assessment,
which involves answering a series of situational questions. After
completing the assessment, which takes about 15 minutes, you will receive a
copy of your report, which describes key elements of your top two strengths –
what they are, how they play out in various roles and situations, and how they
work in combination.
“When you join a team, this is what your teammates feel . . . when you
engage a client, thisis the impact you have . . . when you lead a
team forward, this is the sense they make of you” (page
26).
Golden Egg
Your Strengths Are Your Edge – Use
Them!
“[Your strengths are] your edge – where you will have a natural advantage
over everyone else. And they are your multiplier – you will
most quickly learn and improve upon any innovations, techniques, or best
practices that complement these [strengths].”
StandOut, page
17
As
Buckingham notes, “each of us have specific areas where we consistently stand
out, where we can do things, see things, understand things, and learn things
better and faster than ten thousand other people can” (StandOut,
page 194).
The
secret is to really focus on our core strengths, and use them to their fullest
in order to give you the edge you need. The two following GEMs will show you
how to do just that.
GEM # 1
Find The Best Ways To Apply Your Strengths
“Sustained success comes only when you take what’s
unique about you and figure out how to make it useful.”
StandOut, page
194
Buckingham
emphasizes the importance of taking time to understand how to best apply your
strengths to your work, and provides an exercise to help highlight the best
uses for your strengths:
Take a
piece of paper, and write “Love It” and “Loathe It” in two columns at the
top. Through the day, as you’re doing tasks that excite you, write them
on the “Love It” side, or if they are difficult to do (or you procrastinate
about doing them), write them on the “Loathe It” side.
This
exercise can help you see how your strengths can be the force that invigorates
your work.
Your
strengths need to be tuned to the different roles you are playing – leader,
manager, sales, or client service. As a leader, what’s the unique way you
inspire your staff? As a manager, how are you best able to focus your
team and get the needed results? In sales, how are you best able to be
persuasive and compelling? And in client service, how are you building
trust? All of these elements are optimal if you use your strengths.
GEM # 2
Stay Focused On Your Strengths, Always
“Move us even slightly out of our strengths zone, and our
outstanding performance falls to average alarmingly fast.”
StandOut, p. 195
Despite
looking creatively at your strengths, you still need to stay focused; as
Buckingham notes you can rapidly decline in your performance if you start to
even dabble in areas outside your strengths. He gives several examples,
including one about Jon Stewart – a celebrity widely regarded as a great
interviewer and political commentator – yet as host of the Oscars, his material
was perceived as ‘harsh’ and the audience did not find him funny. He’d
shifted too far from his core strengths. Any time you feel things are not
quite right at work, you’re feeling lost or disoriented, reconnect with your
strengths. “Understanding your strengths will hold you in place, reorient
you, and show you the way forward” (StandOut, page 203).
There
are times when it is easy to lose sight of your talents, particularly with
skills that come easily to you, as they “come so naturally to you that you
don’t see your ability to do them as unique” (StandOut, p. 193).
Don’t underestimate the value of these talents, or overlook them in
considering new avenues or opportunities. The “Love It/Loathe It”
exercise can also be helpful here, particularly in seeing how activities you
excel at can also bring energy and enthusiasm.
StandOut is ideal for anyone looking for new ways to
understand their best talents and qualities, and to learn how their strengths
play out in different settings – with teams, in sales, as a manager.
Whether you’re establishing yourself at work, perhaps in a new role or with a
new team, or are feeling lost and need help with getting on the right path
ahead,StandOut can get you the edge you need. Who we are at
our core is also the key to being our best, and happiest, at work.
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