BOOK SUMMARY 78 Big Magic
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Summary written by: Brittnei Berrisford
"What do you love doing so much that the words
failure and success essentially become irrelevant?"
- Big Magic, page 259
Flirting
with change brings about feelings of fear and resistance in the best of us,
whether you’re an entrepreneur, established in your career or in
transition. Change requires action, action requires inspiration and
inspiration requires trust. Elizabeth Gilbert in her latest outpouring of
creative energy gifted her readers with Big Magic, an expose into
the world of creative living. This piece has a target audience, those that are
creatively bound such as painters, writers, and artists alike; but also speaks
to the ambitious, driven and passionate career minded person looking to create
change within their career or career path.
As
career minded folk, creation could be in the form of a budding business idea,
an innovative project, or a career leap. Ultimately Gilbert urges her readers
to open themselves up to inspiration, persist through challenges and strive to
produce something incredible without the pressure of pending success or the
fear of failure.
More
reflective than actionable, this piece offers valuable thought starters that
could serve as your next biggest catalyst for creation.
The Golden Egg
Big Magic
"I’m
talking about living a life that is driven more strongly by curiosity than by
fear."- Big Magic, page 9
The
key to creative living is opening yourself up to inspiration. Inspiration is
constantly on the look out for viable options, humans who are ready, curious
and willing to explore an idea and adopt a new opportunity. This adoption is
not without fear, but it doesn’t allow for fear to overshadow the process.
“When people try to kill off their fear,” Gilbert says, “they often end up
inadvertently murdering their creativity in the process.”
The Big
Magic approach itself could enlist fear in those outside of Gilbert’s
target audience; the very concept that the creative process requires a deep
belief in both magic and the magical can be unsettling. Although these concepts
are often excluded from formal career coaching, with an open mind Gilbert’s
explanation of our relationship with inspiration can prove to be a valuable
thought starter:
“Ideas
are a disembodied energetic life-form. They are completely separate from us,
but capable of interacting with us… Ideas are driven by a single impulse, to be
made manifest. And the only way an idea can be made manifest in our world is
through collaboration with a human partner. It is only through a human’s
efforts than an idea can be escorted out of the ether and into the realm of the
actual.”
When
an idea has found a suitable human partner, presumably you, it will try to wave
you down on countless occasions, and if you don’t bite—it will move on. The
urgency here is to open yourself up to those ideas. Limit your distractions,
open your mind and prepare yourself for the next big inspiration.
Think
you’ve got hold of it? The next step is to persist, create and trust.
Gem #1
Persistent Curiosity
"The
question is not so much ‘What are you passionate about?’ The question is ‘What
are you passionate about ENOUGH that you can endure the most disagreeable
aspects of that work?’"- Big
Magic, page 150
Okay,
so inspiration has struck. Now comes the work. Regardless of our level of
connection with or the strength of our inspiration—there will always be
challenges and obstacles that make it less desirable as time goes on. Instead
of resisting or giving up, “a different way is to cooperate fully, humbly, and
joyfully with inspiration,” Gilbert suggests. Grounding yourself in curiosity
can be the key to persistence, as “curiosity is what keeps you working
steadily, while hotter emotions may come and go.”
As a
budding entrepreneur, paperwork and logistics may have you dreading kicking
off, but stay close to your inspiration and the promise of curiosity can allow
you to preserve through to fruition. Or, as an ambitious team leader looking to
shake things up with an innovative project, forecasting the tough bits and the
end goals can help create a road map that allows for sustainability and
persistence.
Sound
daunting? Give it a whirl, because “it’s a simple and generous rule of life
that whatever you practice, you will improve at.”
Gem #2
Don’t be a Martyr
"Interesting
outcomes are just awful outcomes with the volume of drama turned way down"- Big Magic, page 247
Creators
of all types carry a reputation for martyrdom; the tortured artist, the
tormented writer, and the perpetually overwhelmed executive. The danger of
martyrdom is quite simply that it is a dramatic, dark and uninspiring place to
be in.
Gilbert
introduces an enticing alternative: the Trickster. Tricksters trust the
universe, they are optimistic, sly, primal, and endlessly shape shifting.
Embrace the Trickster and you’ll find the burden of success and the ultimate
need for perfection will fade away, leaving you with the raw inspiration and
the persistent curiosity to power through to completion. “Fierce trust demands
that you put forth the work anyhow, because fierce trust knows that the outcome
does not matter,” Gilbert explains.
While
a fluffy and softer approach to creativity, Big Magic is quite
frankly, inspiring. As it turns out, taking the rigorous and quantifiable
nature of goal setting out of the equation leaves room for creative living,
which can be a very productive place to be. We can all take a page out of
Gilbert’s expose, trust in the process of inspiration, lighten up our own
expectations, and loosen our definition of success—because when we do—magical
things can happen!
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