10 Easy Ways You Can
Practice Mindfulness
Have you ever wondered
what it means to live in the present? Aren't we all here, now, in the present?
Technically, yes, but for so many of us, we are only 10 percent
here.
We are really living in our minds. We exist from day-to-day in a
dream-like state where we're not really connected to the world around us, nor
centered in our own body or being.
Instead, we're preoccupied with memories of the past, churning thoughts
and worries about the future, and judgments and reactions to the few things we
do see.
We're literally missing out on most our own lives, which leaves
us feeling shallow, empty and deeply unsettled.
The great news is you can learn to be more present and mindful.
Here are 10 easy ways you can practice mindfulness in your daily life.
1. Eat mindfully.
When you scoff down your meal on autopilot while distracted by
the television, computer or constant conversation, you miss out on the
delicious taste and smell of your food. You're also less likely to feel
satisfied and nourished, because you 'missed out' on the fact that you ate.
It can be helpful to remember this phrase: When you eat,
eat. When you drink, drink.
In other words, don't attempt to do fifty other things when you
sit down to a meal, coffee or green juice. Simply focus all of your attention
on what is in front of you.
2. Walk mindfully.
Take a beautiful tip from spiritual leader Thich Nhat Hanh and
"walk as if you are kissing the earth with your feet."
In others words, when you are out and about, pay attention
occasionally to the movement of your body and your surroundings.
Notice as your feet connect with and leave the ground. Feel your
muscles moving and supporting you.
Observe what is going on around you -- the sights, sounds and
life unfolding. You may be amazed to find a whole new world you hadn't even
noticed before.
3. Observe your breathing.
As Echkart Tolle once said, a single breath in and out is a
meditation.
Your breathing occurs naturally and rhythmically. When you pay
attention to it, it takes you out of your mind and into your body.
You momentarily free yourself from your churning thoughts,
worries and fears, and you remind yourself of who you really are -- your inner
spirit, not your thoughts.
4. Connect with your senses.
Your senses -- touch, smell, taste, sound and sight -- are your
gateway into the present moment.
But when you are lost in thought, you don't experience what your
senses are picking up.
Pause to soak up the beautiful aroma of your coffee. The salty
ocean air. The beauty and diversity of flowers in your neighbourhood. The
mouth-watering waft of wood-fire pizza coming from your local Italian
restaurant as you pass it.
Notice how your clothing feels against your body. The soft clean
bed sheets on your skin in the morning. The comforting warmth of your lover's
kiss. The grass under your feet. The sensation of water and suds on your hands
as you do the washing up.
Put love and attention into the simple tasks of your day, and
you will be amazed how much joy and peace they can bring you.
5. Pause between action.
Pause and listen to the sound of the phone ringing before
answering it.
Pause and feel the weight of your body in your chair before
beginning your work for the day.
Pause and feel the door handle of your home before you open it
at the end of the day.
Putting mini pauses between actions in your day can ground you
in your inner being, clear your mind, and provide you with fresh energy for the
new task ahead.
Think of it like putting energetic bookends at the start and end
of each activity.
6. Listen wholeheartedly.
Most of us never truly listen to people when they are speaking
to us, because we're too busy planning what to say next, judging what they are
saying, or getting lost in daydreams altogether.
Next time you're in a conversation, make it your goal to fully
listen to what the other person is saying to you, without getting lost in your
thoughts.
Trust that you will intuitvely know the right thing to say next
when it's your turn to speak.
7. Get lost in the flow of doing things you love.
We all have certain activities we love doing -- they connect us
with our inner spirit and bring us fully alive.
For you it could be cooking, dancing, singing, gardening,
writing, painting, bushwalking, swimming or building Ikea furniture.
We love doing these things so much that we often lose ourselves
in them. That is, we lose our smaller self -- our churning thoughts and worries
- because we are pouring all of our love and attention into the present moment.
Incorporate more flow activities in your weekly routine, and
your happiness will skyrocket.
8. Mediate daily.
There's no getting around it -- meditation has huge benefits and
increases your levels of energy, happiness, inspiration and inner peace.
It doesn't have to take long. Even 10 minutes a day can have a
positive impact on your life. It will also strengthen your mindfulness muscles,
so you'll find it much easier to become present throughout the day.
9. Travel or mix up your routine.
There's more than one reason you feel amazing on holidays. When
you're in a new place, you automatically become more present and mindful --
simply because there are so many new sights, sounds and smells to soak up.
Your senses take over for a short while and it frees you from
your mind.
No travel plans? That's fine. Mix up your routine -- it will
have the same effect.
Take a different route, stop at a new coffee shop, visit a new
place locally or try something you've done done before like paddle boarding,
cooking a new recipe or writing calligraphy.
10. Observe your thoughts and emotions.
You are not your thoughts -- you are the observer of your
thoughts. The fact that you can listen to them shows that they are not you. You
are something higher and separate.
By simply becoming aware of your thoughts and non-judgmentally
observing them as they come and go -- like clouds passing in the sky -- you are
being more present. You are not getting caught up in your thoughts and forgetting
that they are not you.
As you observe, resist the temptation to get carried away by a
particular thought down a tunnel into the past or future. Picture your thoughts
like trains at the station - you're on the platform watching them come and go,
but you're not going to jump on and go for a ride.
Before you leave this article, I encourage you to take a moment
to pause, take a deep breath, and sense what it's like to be alive in this very
moment. This moment is your life.
Elyse Santilli
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