These 10 Questions Can Foretell If You’ll Be Successful In Life
Success
isn’t limited to just how far you’ve climbed up the corporate ladder, but other
aspects of your life, too, such as instilling a healthy balance between work
and family, pursuing and achieving various goals and dreams, and simply
embracing who you are. However, there are scientifically proven signs that will
indicate whether or not you will truly be successful in life, in whatever way
you choose to define success. Here are 10 questions that predict
whether you’ll spread your wings and soar toward your goals and success.
1. Are You Open And Mentally Prepared To Grow?
People,
who are opposed to the idea that people’s character, intelligence and
creativity can change, tend to have slower development in their personal
growth, because they want to avoid failure instead of working on those three
areas of their lives. But those people with a “growth mindset” see failure as a
learning point from which to leap from as they bound onward and upward toward
success. They embrace challenges, survive setbacks, embrace and improve based
off of criticism, and will attain their goals. Stanford psychologist Carol
Dweck researched how
people view their personality’s influence on their happiness and success and
found that those positive and open individuals believe their true potential is
limitless and so are more willing to work harder and be more dedicated.
2. Are You Private About Your Goals?
Surprisingly,
psychologists say that telling someone about your personal goal makes it less
likely to materialize. Entrepreneur Derek Sivers, who spoke in a TED Talk Keep Your Goals To Yourself said that to meet a goal, a person must take steps,
put in the hard work and not stop until he or she is satisfied. But once you
tell someone about your goal and they recognize your mission, that’s called
“social reality” where the mind is swayed into feeling that you’ve already met
your goal and you’re no longer motivated to proceed.
3. Are You Happy?
Positivity
is a key ingredient to success and being happy helps with that upbeat outlook.
That doesn’t necessarily mean you should be satisfied and not strive for
greater goals and successes, but be happy with you and where you’re at each
step of the way. Psychiatrist and author of Heaven and Hell: The Psychology of the
Emotions George
Vaillant’s research revealed that love is truly the key to happiness. Even if
an individual relishes success in work, rakes in a boatload of money and enjoys
good healthy, that person will not be completely happy without love and
positive relationships.
4. Do You Have A High Level Of Self-Esteem?
It takes
confidence to have the competence to grow and gain successes. Authors Katty Kay
and Claire Shipman, who penned The Confidence Code, note that low self-confidence leads to inaction, but taking
those first steps armed with an action plan will boost a person’s belief that
he or she really can succeed.
5. Are You Exactly Who You Want To Be?
Exuding
the qualities of successful leaders doesn’t mean you have to be fake, but
instead means you’re working toward the new and improved you. In her Harvard
Business Review article titled The Authenticity Paradox, professor Herminia Ibarra said that “play-acting”
will help you gain confidence and others will feel the same way about you, too.
6. Do You Have Extreme Will Power?
One method
to increasing your will power is to select one thing to improve upon bit by bit
every day and to not procrastinate things that take just a few minutes to
tackle, such as loading the dishwasher after dinner or swapping out the laundry
in the washer to the dryer. Author James Clear notes
that elite performers in a wide variety of fields, from athletes to musicians
to artists and even CEOs, are more consistent than others.
7. Are You A Social Butterfly?
People who
are both smart and socially adept tend to earn more. According to a study conducted
by Catherine Weinberger, an economics professor at the University of
California, Santa Barbara, having both cognitive ability and social skills are
one key to success.
8. Are You Ambitious?
One
characteristic that repeatedly appears in highly successful people is grit.
Psychologist Angela Duckworth has studying both
kids and adults and found that those who have grit, or stamina, are hard
workers with their minds set on a goal and will work harder than others to turn
that goal into a reality. Jason Ma, author of
Youth Leaders 3.0: Stories, Insights, and Tips for Next-Generation Achievers,
notes that anyone can be ambitious with the right motivation.
9. Are You A Risk Taker?
Ambitious
people dead set on achieving their goals also know they often must take some
risk, which can be quite difficult for others. Ma noted that oftentimes a
breakthrough in the path to success can be spurred out of a well-managed
crisis. These people also don’t spend too much time honing their skill set, but
rather executing a strategy utilizing those valuable skill sets.
10. Are You Steadfast?
Do not
compete with others and let their negativity or successes drag you down. Ma
notes that a person’s biggest competitor should be himself or herself. Do not
measure yourself against others and do not them steer you off course.
How To Be Successful In A Nutshell
As you
work on the “new you” with an eye on the prize of success, remember Maslow’s
hierarchy of needs that explains how you cannot be the best you can be until
your first tier needs are met. These are the basic needs, such as food,
financial ability to pay your bills, and support and self-esteem that buoys
your self-worth. Once you have a game plan mapped out for meeting those basic
needs, then begin working on the next levels and charge ahead down that path to
success. Be sure to surround yourself with other ambitious, driven,
goal-setting people and support each other as you work toward attaining those
goals.
BY KRISTIN
DANLEY-GREINER
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