Monday, September 8, 2014

WORKPLACE SPECIAL ..................7 Words the Happiest People Use at Work

7 Words the Happiest People Use at Work


Being happy in the office is not always easy. You might arrive late and get a stern look from the rest of your office staff. On a cloudy day, you might be feeling miserable about life in general. Delays with projects, financial issues, or just a cranky office admin can cause stress and disappointment when you are trying to build a company.
Yet, the words we use can often determine our mood. Those who complain about the weekend might use too many negative terms, but those who are joyful tend to say things that perk up the entire office and make you want to get things done faster. They use words with a soft glow at the edges. Here are my top picks.

1. Joyous

A good place to start when it comes to being happy at work: Try using words to convey that feeling directly. Saying you are looking forward to a "joyous" day on a project or have some "joyous" news for the staff means you want to spread some happiness around the entire room. The word itself means you are full of joy--i.e., it's just spilling over.

2. Pumped

It's tempting to use the word "pumped" too often, but here's what I like about it. If you say you are "pumped" about a presentation, it means are looking forward to it so much that you can barely contain yourself. (The word literally means to be filled with excitement.) It shows people you have an attitude of expectation.

3. Motivated

Have you noticed there's a way to say the word M-O-T-I-V-A-T-E-D in an exaggerated fashion? If you stop by the cubicle of a co-worker and say you are M-O-T-I-V-A-T-E-D, you are communicating a few things about your state of mind, your ambitions, and your job. Mostly, you are communicating that you are moving forward with a positive bent.

4. Relish

Not to be confused with the pickled condiment: If you say you "relish" the opportunity to do a sales call or "relish" those after-work meetups, you are letting people know you are not acting by rote. People who "relish" are happy with life in general.

5. Sanguine

Did you know the definition of "sanguine"? It doesn't just mean you are content. It means you are content in the midst of chaos or disappointment. People who are happy at work maintain that disposition no matter what happens.

6. Copacetic

Try using the word "copacetic" in casual conversation. Be careful to avoid sounding condescending or sarcastic. Use the term to imply that the project and the team are getting along, that you are happy with the results, and everything is in harmony.

7. Perfect

I have a friend who likes to say "perfect" when he agrees with an idea or plan, especially as a single word response. Can we get lunch today? "Perfect," he'll say. What does it mean? To me, he wants to spread his happiness. The synergies between us have aligned.

BY JOHN BRANDON


http://www.inc.com/john-brandon/7-words-the-happiest-people-use-at-work.html?cid=em01014week36d

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