8 Pitfalls on the Path to Success
Avoid these eight "traps,"
and your long-term success is assured.
I
recently received an e-mail from the motivational speaker and real estate
investor Paul LeJoy. He's been wildly successful in real estate
sales and has mentored and worked with dozens of entrepreneurs.
In
his e-mail, LeJoy identified eight
pitfalls that lie athwart every pathway to success. His thoughts were so deep
and insightful that I edited them and condensed them:
1.
Timidity
Every path to success begins with a
great idea. There's only one problem: Great ideas are a dime a dozen. What
really matters when it comes to becoming a success is not having the idea but
having the courage to transform that idea into reality. This usually means a
risk of losing the security of a regular job and risking a steady paycheck.
Only the brave ever overcome this first of the pitfalls.
2.
Laziness
Even with a great idea and the
courage to pursue it, your efforts will be for naught unless you're willing to
take massive action. Write down your goals and (more important) the action
steps you'll take to pursue those goals. Post your vision and plan in your
bedroom, bathroom, office. Share it with others, so they'll hold you
accountable for delivering on your plan. Make yourself accountable and become
the master of your destiny.
3.
Complacency
Without passion, even the most
compelling vision will wither on the vine. Without passion, your energy and
enthusiasm will flag when you encounter inevitable obstacles. Make your passion
into an almost physical characteristic of your personality, an inexorable force
that keeps you engaged every moment of every workday, bringing you one step
closer to the measure of success that you desire.
4.
Distraction
The modern world clamors for your
attention in ever-louder ways, a deluge that can distract you from your course.
It takes self-discipline to persevere amidst the noise and haste, to assert
your willpower over casual desires and instincts. Channel your emotions,
behavior, and desires toward obtaining the reward of success. Remember: Living
a life of self-discipline is less painful in the long run than regretting
"what might have been."
5.
Doubt
Once you've made a decision, doubt
is a worm that eats away at your ability to succeed. Life and work can be hard
and even cruel. Remember, the race is not for the swift but rather those who
persevere. Rather than allowing doubt to seep in and poison your process, you
owe it to yourself to remain confident in your vision and your plan. Adapt as
needed along the way, but always know that success will ultimately be yours.
6.
Disconnection
The old sayings "no man is an
island" and "there's strength in numbers" may sound corny, but
that doesn't make them any less true. Even with self-discipline, in the long
run, you'll need contact with kindred spirits and mentors. Meeting regularly
can be a great boost to your morale and provide new perspectives on your approach.
The Internet makes it extraordinarily easy to find a coach, mentor, or
mastermind group that can provide the emotional support, experience, and wisdom
to help turn your vision into reality.
7.
Dishonesty
As you begin to be successful,
you'll be tempted to lie, exaggerate, and deceive in order to move your agenda
forward. However, taking the easy way of dishonesty has a tendency to sneak
back up on you. In the end, it causes far more problems than taking the risk of
telling the truth. True success comes when you are a person of your word, when
you have a pure conscience, and when you have not cheated others on your way to
the top.
8.
Ingratitude
The final pitfall is by far the most
dangerous, because it's so easy to miss. When your vision becomes a reality,
you are still a failure if you cannot remember your humble beginnings or
recognize the contributions of those who helped you along the way. Remember:
There is no such thing as a self-made billionaire. If you can't experience
gratitude, you might as well have stayed exactly where you started.
Geoffrey Jameshttp://www.inc.com/geoffrey-james/8-pitfalls-on-the-path-to-success.html?cid=em01016week16c
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