The Secret to Great Communication: Be Like Aristotle
Author Carmine Gallo
discusses his new book about how we can revive the lost art of persuasion.
As a best-selling author, Harvard instructor,
keynote speaker and brand adviser, Carmine Gallo has spent his career focused
on communication skills. He believes the ancient art of persuasion has been
lost in the modern business world, and he wants to help workers bring it back.
His latest book is titled Five Stars: The Communication
Secrets to Get From Good to Great.
He visited the Knowledge@Wharton to explain why he doesn’t consider good
communication a soft skill.
An edited transcript of the conversation
follows.
Knowledge@Wharton: Why
has the importance of good communication skills come into such sharp focus in
the last few years?
Carmine Gallo: Great
persuaders are irresistible throughout all of history. But at no time in our
historical record have interpersonal communication skills been as important as
they are today, which is somewhat counterintuitive. That’s what caught my
interest, and that’s why I wrote the book. Because today, anyone, anywhere in
the world who is better at expressing their ideas can see a sudden massive
increase in wealth that is unprecedented in human history.
In the agrarian age, a farmer who plowed the field a little
better than their neighbor cannot acquire significantly more wealth. In the
industrial age, a factory worker who assembled widgets faster than the person
next to them would not acquire significantly more wealth. But the historians,
economists, entrepreneurs and venture capitalists I talked to for the book all
profess the same theme: In this age of artificial intelligence, globalization,
automation — the one skill that can separate you not only from the technology
that we create but from your peers is mastering the ancient art of persuasion.
Combining words and ideas to ignite people’s imagination.
Knowledge@Wharton: So
many of us communicate now through text or email instead of a phone call or a
letter. Have we lost the ability to persuade through communication because of
our reliance on technology?
Gallo: The tools we use to
communicate to one another have changed. Let’s also include the digital
presentation tools we use, like PowerPoint. We’re not drawing pictures on cave
walls as we did thousands of years ago. But what’s fascinating, and the
competitive advantage that I talk about, is the ancient brain, the primitive
brain, has not changed. The way we like to communicate, the way we process
information through the vehicle of story, through emotions, through empathy —
those things have not changed since the beginning of time. That’s why I call
“mastering the ancient art of persuasion” a competitive skill. It is an ancient
art; we just need to bring it back into the business fold.
Knowledge@Wharton: How
much do you think companies are aware of this and factor it into the hiring
process?
Gallo: Much more than you
think. Again, this is something that prompted this book. I don’t just write
these books out of nowhere. I feel what’s going on. I talk to executives, talk
to CEOs. What’s happening out there in the industry? For example, SAP, a giant
business software company that’s global, just hired a relatively new marketing
manager in the last year, but her title is chief storyteller. Storytelling goes
back 2,000 years ago to Aristotle. This is not new. But what they’re finding is
that they cannot compete by giving you engineering terms and talking to you
about business software that is so complex that it’s hard for the average
person to understand. They use the vehicle of story, of narrative to better
sell those products.
I also found this at Google. I interviewed Avinash Kaushik, one
of the top executives at Google who’s also the leading web analytics expert in
the world. He said, “Carmine, we can have all the data in the world. We can
have better data than anyone else. But if we cannot communicate that data to a
customer and show them how it applies to their world and makes their business
better, then we have failed. Then all that data doesn’t matter to our company.”
That’s why he and others within Google are transforming their
entire culture into being better storytellers, better communicators, more
persuasive and packaging information in a way that is clear and understandable
and memorable. But when you look at how they’re doing it, they’re not using new
skills. They’re using skills that were handed down to us thousands of years
ago.
Knowledge@Wharton: In the
book, you talk about Virgin CEO Richard Branson’s love of storytelling. He
thinks it’s a key component in business.
Gallo: He said that
storytelling can be used to drive change. But then he said, “I do not believe
you could be a great leader today without being a good storyteller.” How does
Richard Branson and his team use storytelling? The same way we did thousands of
years ago. He gathers his team around a fire pit at his home on Necker Island.
He said, “The best ideas for our company have come around a campfire.”
That was a critical conversation for me because that’s when I
realized we haven’t changed that much. The human brain has not changed. The
more you understand how the brain processes information and how your listener
wants to receive that information, that’s where I believe there’s that
competitive advantage to stand out.
Knowledge@Wharton: But
what about people who say they just want to get to the point and get the facts?
Gallo: This is why I focus
very much on Aristotle’s three-part formula for persuasion. Aristotle gave us
the formula that all persuaders use, from the Founding Fathers to today’s great
business leaders to Abraham Lincoln and John F. Kennedy and Martin Luther King
Jr. If you look at great speeches or presentations, all fall under a three-part
formula.
In order for me to persuade you to change your mind, I need to
do three things. I need to have ethos, which is credibility and character. I
need to have what Aristotle called Logos, which is a logical structure to my
argument. In business, that means the data or the evidence to back up your
argument. But the key is that you cannot persuade another person to change
their mind without pathos, which is emotion. Everything about human nature — from
the stock market to where we invest to how we vote — is based on our emotional
narratives that we tell each other as groups and within individuals.
You still need the other two parts. I can’t just appeal to you
on emotion. That might work for a limited amount of time, but I’m not going to
sell you a multimillion-dollar project if I don’t have a logical evidence to
back my results, and if I don’t have some credibility for who I am. So, it’s a
three-part formula that has been handed down for generations. We’re just losing
sight of it because we want to get across our bullet points, our facts, our
information in our pie charts without understanding that people are moved by
emotion.
I’ve written several books on communication skills. But a few
books ago, I interviewed a molecular biologist named John Medina at the
University of Washington. He opened my eyes. He said, “The brain does not pay
attention to boring things.” That is why people like TED talks because they
have visual presentation. It’s not all text and bullet points. In fact, bullet
points are not allowed on a TED stage. They are based in narrative and story
and compelling visuals. That takes some creativity. It’s easy to open a
PowerPoint slide and just fill out bullet points and text. What we’re talking
about is ancient. It’s part of our DNA. It’s what we do naturally. But it does
take some creativity.
Knowledge@Wharton: How
is the need for better communication skills affecting companies?
Gallo: I call it a
communication skills gap. One of the many surveys that I cite is one taken by
LinkedIn of recruiters and hiring managers from around the world. Ninety-four
percent said that a person with good experience but exceptional communications
skills is more likely to be elevated to a position of leadership than someone
with better experience but weaker verbal skills.
There is also very real evidence of people, whether they’re
millennials or mid-level career professionals or leaders, who not only have
been elevated above their peers, but they’re promoted more often. They rise
higher in the ranks much more quickly. They’re more successful at selling
products, marketing and engaging teams. The difference almost always comes down
to the fact that they are better leaders. But what does that mean? They are
more persuasive. They’re better communicators. They can connect with people on
a much deeper, powerful level.
Knowledge@Wharton: You
talked with Navy SEALs, and that’s a very different type of leadership. How do
practicing good communication skills have a role in what they do?
Gallo: The
Navy SEALs are interesting because they value leaders and they create leaders
who can clearly and concisely communicate the vision behind a strategic mission
or an initiative. Some people are just PowerPoint rangers. They give you these
100-slide PowerPoints and everything is very confusing and convoluted, much
like what we do in business today. Yet the leaders who are valued, who stand
out and who are trained are those who must communicate their vision visually,
so they use presentations in a much more visual medium. They have to be very
clear, so everybody understands the mission immediately, and they have to do it
in a concise fashion. It’s an actual training within the Navy SEAL culture.
It’s not enough just to be able to pass Hell Week. It’s not enough
just to pass the physical requirements. You have to be a good communicator
leader in order to get the most out of your teams. I have found that not only
within the Navy SEALs but also within Special Forces and several other branches
of the military. I’ve found it with NASA astronauts. You cannot become an
astronaut today just by passing the physicals or just by having a Ph.D. or
being a test pilot. Those are the credentials. That’s the ethos we talked
about. But if you cannot communicate and collaborate across cultures and across
teams on a space station where you’re stationed for one year with a small group
of people, they’re still not going to hire you. Those 12 people who are hired
out of 18,000 applications are typically good communicators.
Knowledge@Wharton: Getting
back to the business side, sometimes we forget how critical communication is to
the product or service being offered.
Gallo: That’s why we talk
about this idea that it’s the great persuaders who stand out. I have
interviewed billionaire venture capitalists behind Google, Airbnb, Uber,
PayPal. One person in particular said, “The great persuaders have an unfair
competitive advantage.” When you pitch an idea, it’s still an idea, so 90% of
what we’re communicating is an expectation of what we hope to achieve. We have
to bring you into our vision. Today more than ever, entrepreneurs and business
leaders need to be able to excite people about a vision and bring people into
that journey. That’s a skill that sets people apart.
I was talking to Geoff Ralston, who is one of the partners of a
seed accelerator called Y Combinator in Silicon Valley, and he corrected me. He
corrected me, the communication guy. I said, “Geoff, I know we’re
talking about a soft skill here.” And he stopped me and said, “What are you
talking about?” I said, “Well, public speaking, communication — we call them
soft skills.” He said, “You might consider it a soft skill. I consider it
fundamental.” He was serious. That’s why I say that at no time in history has
interpersonal communication been as important. Let’s get away from calling it a
soft skill. The art of persuasion, combining words and ideas to move people to
action, is not a soft skill in today’s global environment. It’s fundamental to
your success.
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