There Is More to Life Than…..
I decided to leave the title of this article open ended, because
I’d like you to fill in what words best fit that blank. We’re all unique
individuals from different walks of life, and in different stages of life; so,
that sentence will have a different meaning for each of us.
If you’re a busy working professional, why are you working in
the job that you have now?
Is it because it’s something you’re passionate about and brings
you a lot of satisfaction? Or, is it because you studied that in college and
just found a job that hired you for those skills? Perhaps it’s because of the
money that you’re earning, or know you can earn down the line?
What if you’re about to retire? You’ve got, say, 2 to 3 more years
before you hit your ‘deadline’ for retiring. Have you done all that you’ve
wanted to do in the past 30-40 years? Any unfulfilled goals or dreams? Are you
happy with the outcome of your life to date, all the decisions and/or risks
that you’ve made thus far?
I’m sure many of us started working after college in hopes of
earning a good living–to be financially stable and able to afford the ability
to experience and do things that we love. We start establishing a career, and
with time, tick off boxes on our bucket or ambition list. As you look back on
the last couple of years, just how much of your time has been spent doing
things that you enjoy and love–the things that give you a great sense of
fulfillment and meaning?
Have you become a slave to the economy, a slave to your work, or
a slave to your kids? Or have you found a balance between between work and
pleasure?
When is Enough Ever
Enough?
Sadly, many of us live to work.
Realists would argue that if you truly want to work to live, you
still need the finances to back that up. No money no talk. That is how
the world runs today. So if you don’t earn or make enough dough, it’s hard to
truly enjoy life; it’s hard to be happy without money.
So, in this quest to provide just that, many of us end up
spending our whole lives pursuing wealth and a life of status and material
wants. But, is it ever enough? Is there such a thing as having too much money?
And, at what expense?
Many wealthy entrepreneurs, millionaires and even billionaires
have come to agree that money doesn’t bring you all the
happiness in the world. It’s good to have, but it doesn’t truly satisfy all
desires. There comes a point where you would have ‘had it all’ and still feel a
sense of emptiness: an empty void that needs to be filled, not with money or
material possessions.
So the question is then, what more is there to life if
not for financial stability, status or material possessions?
How do we make work a part of life instead of
having it consume our life entirely? Perhaps we need to go back to look at the
word life itself.
What is Your Purpose in Life?
What is the nature of life? What does life mean to you? Is there
a purpose?
If we seek jobs, all we will find are jobs. But if we have a
sense of purpose in how we are productive; if we seek a calling, then we will
find more than a job. We will find our contribution to humanity and we will
find more to life. Would you agree?
Research has shown that having purpose
and meaning in life increases overall well-being and life satisfaction,
improves mental and physical health, enhances resiliency, enhances self-esteem,
and decreases the chances of depression.
So it should be noted that to be happy in life isn’t
always enough, because happiness is a surge of emotions that does not last.
Instead, it’s more important to find and have meaning in life.
Meaning is not only about transcending the self, but also
about transcending the present moment. While happiness is an emotion felt in
the here and now, it ultimately fades away, just as all emotions do; positive
affect and feelings of pleasure are fleeting.
Have You Been Going on a Wild Goose Chase?
Ironically, the
single-minded pursuit of happiness is leaving people less happy. “It is the very
pursuit of happiness, that thwarts happiness”, according to Viktor Frankl, a
famous Austrian Neurologist and Holocaust survivor. Going back to the common
example of pursuing riches in order to be happy is exactly what makes many so
unhappy.
So again, look at the statement “There is more to life than
______.”
Have you answered it meaningfully? If you’ve read on this far,
and are now wondering how to take that first step to figuring out what your
true purpose is in life, fret not; I’m here to help you reframe your mind and
actions, so that you can embark on a journey of finding true meaning to
your life.
Everything that you can do and accomplish in life are bounded
by 7 Cornerstone Skills.These are the true essentials needed to
achieve excellence. They’ll put you on a path that gives great meaning and
satisfaction in life. And, they already exist in each of us. We just don’t
always make the most of it, or sometimes we aren’t even aware of the power that
each of these skills have to help us in life.
On it’s own, each skill is unique and can help you through
different stages of life, or problems. But as a whole set, these 7 Cornerstone
Skills will give you full transformation over any situation. No matter what
phase of life you’re in, what you’re striving to achieve, or what feel you’re
lacking, your pursuit of meaning in life will be much faster when you’re able
to make use of not one, not two, but all 7 Cornerstone Skills.
The 7 Cornerstone Skills
So let me give you a glimpse into what these 7 Cornerstone
skills are.
Creativity
Creativity empowers you
to find unique solutions to problems, and see things in ways that you least
expect.
It goes beyond the artistic impressions and aesthetics, and is a
crucial building block of change.
Learning
Without Learning,
you will not be able to advance and progress in life. Yet, there are many of us
who always fall behind not because they don’t have the intellectual ability,
but because they don’t know how to learn effectively.
Memory
And then we have Memory, one of the most vital components, because without
that you have nothing to fall back on, nothing to gain from all the learning or
experiences that you’re exposed to on this earth.
And with an ever increasing amount of information available, how
can you store up as much knowledge as you can without overloading?
Focus
And with any and everything that you do, a certain amount
of Focus is always
given.
Whether it’s the career ladder that you’ve been climbing, or the
responsibility of being a parent, Focus is a flow that allows you to push
towards the progress that you’re striving for.
Without focus, we find ourselves lost, demotivated and stuck in
a rut.
Motivation
Many of us aren’t happy in life or with our jobs and
responsibilities because we lack Motivation,
and an overarching purpose as I already mentioned earlier.
Motivation helps drive you forward, and gives you the focus achieve your
purpose.
Habits
If you realize, every new day that comes is filled with
routines. Whether it’s getting ready for work in the morning, putting your kids
to bed in the evening, or setting aside time during the weekends for family
time and activities, it all happens as a result of habits that you’ve built
over time.
Therefore Habits dictate
a big part of your life. Pursuing happiness, money or meaning
all have a dependency on your habits. If you find yourself being controlled by
bad or negative habits, it’s more likely to hinder you from being productive
and reaching those goals.
Time
This also ends up leading to bad use of Time, or poor time management.
You might feel like you haven’t built a stable career yet
because you lack proper time management. You find yourself spending a lot of
time being busy, yet producing little outcomes.
Or certain habits might be consuming time that you can be using
for other more productive tasks.
Perhaps you’re on your way to retirement, and feel like it’s too
late to find new meaning to your life. There’s not much time left to embark on
a new journey again.
Are You Ready to Live Your Best Life?
The simple fact is, that if you can sharpen these 7 Cornerstone
skills, you will realize that finding meaning in life, or reaching the goals
and ambitions that you’ve set out for yourself, no matter what stage of life
you’re in, is very attainable.
There is no magical method to having life figured out. The
skills have always been there since day 1, you just need to know how to use it
to the best of your advantage.
And I’m here to show you just how you can do that. Lifehack is
all about equipping you with the best and most effective ways to increase your
productivity, motivation and focus to achieve true Purpose in life, in as
little time as possible.
Embark on a transformational journey with us as we show you how
to learn and improve your 7 Cornerstone Skills so that you’ll come out a new
person, ready to either pursue your existing goals at a much quicker rate, or
to find new goals to pursue without being limited by time, age or
responsibilities.
Anyone can transform, anyone can change. Are you ready to live
your best life?
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