7 Simple Steps to Resolve Any Problem
Struggles and difficulties
are part of life. You cannot avoid these problems; it will always arise no
matter how much you try to take control or organize the things in your life.
Most people spend more time and energy going around problems
than in trying to solve them.
~ Henry Ford
Problems are not the reason
why a person lives a difficult and miserable life; most of the time, it’s a
matter of perspective. Because often, majority of people let problems defeat
them through feelings of anger, fear and anxiety. These negative feelings
paralyze a person to move forward and take a step in resolving the problem.
On the other hand,
perspective is also the reason why there are people who succeed despite struggles
and difficulties in life. It’s because those who succeed knows how to resolve
or manage problems when it arises. They don’t let the negative emotion of
anger, doubt, fear or anxiety interfere their ability to think of the solutions
and take the next step.
If you get easily paralyzed
and depressed by the problems in your life, take time to read and follow these
seven steps in resolving problem. It can help you rise above the difficulties,
move on positively and eventually achieve success in life.
Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what
to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer. ~
Denis Waitley
1.
Identify Your Problems
The first step to rising and
resolving the problems of your life is to identify what your problems are.
Because when you know what your problems are, only then can you be ready to
face and resolve it.
Stop feeling angry, scared
and anxious even for just a few minutes. Take time to reflect and start writing
down what makes your life difficult. Identify one by one all the problems
that’s bothering and paralyzing you to enjo
2. Face
Your Problems
After you’ve identified all the problems that are keeping you
from being happy in your life, the next step is for you to be strong and
approach your problems.
Oftentimes, we tend to avoid problems because of the discomfort
and awkwardness it feels. However, avoiding doesn’t solve your problems; it
will only prolong or increases the damage and difficulty when left unsolved. Be
strong in facing and resolving your problems.
3.
Resolve Your Problems
Once you had the courage to face your problems, you are now
ready to decide on the solution or the next action step.
Remember, anger, worry or misery doesn’t change anything; it
will only leave you with ill feelings. The circumstance will only change when
you start to decide on the solution.
4. Move
On
Once the problem is resolved, move on and let it go. Stop
thinking about your problem over and over again. It will do nothing but gives
you anxiety and stress.
5.
Remember the Lessons Learned
You may be surprised but the truth is problems are actually good
for you because it is a way for you to learn a lesson. However, if the lesson
isn’t learned, there’s a huge possibility that the problem will occur again in
the future.
In every problem that arises in your life, strive to learn the
lesson and carry them as you move forward in life. Remember, it’s better to
carry the lessons learned rather than the grudges.
6. Never
Lose Your Value as a Person
It is false to believe that problems are bad karma as a
consequence of your past wrong doings. Remember, problem happens even to the
most saintly people on earth. Never let problems become a measurement of your
value as a person. You never lose your value because of problems.
7. Be
Ready for Problems
The best way to become prepared and ready with problems is to
accept that it is part of life. Accept problems as part of the imperfections
that makes life more meaningful and worth living for. As they say, if there’s
no pain, there’s no glory. The same is true that if there’s no problems and
difficulty, there will be no happiness and bliss.
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