7 Things Only an Entrepreneur Understands
I
wasn’t always an entrepreneur…
My first job in high school
was at one of our local fast food restaurants and within six months, I had a
different job working at one of the local supermarkets, where I continued to
work through high school and college. Over the last 25 years, I have held
numerous jobs in a variety of industries with a vast amount of
responsibilities.
Aside from motherhood, no
“job” has been as extreme or as difficult as becoming a business owner. The
rewards are smaller but carry more meaning. Every piece of education is “on the
job training” and there is some solace in knowing (believing) that most will
never know of your mistakes.
No matter the industry or
type of business, every entrepreneur develops one thing…the same mindset.
No one teaches us how to have
it, but it is something that becomes quite necessary as soon as we open our
doors to the public or offer our services. I’m sure there are books out there
that can guide us, but it can be quite difficult to completely change the way
one thinks, processes information, and puts things into action. All when none
of those have ever been done before.
As an entrepreneur myself, I
know the diligence I need to have to make my business successful and, every
day, that is my goal. Some days, I feel like I accomplish nothing, even though
I have been sitting at my desk for over 8 hours (or more).
7 ways to better understand
the entrepreneur you know:
1.
We are our worst critic
In our world, no one could
demand more of our performance than we do. If we get a bad review, we are
embarrassed by it and will do what we can to rectify it. In some workplaces,
people will place blame and find excuses for poor performance or lack of attention
when it comes to projects being done correctly and on time. However, there are
no excuses when you own your own business. There is no one to blame but
yourself. Our level of standards and expectations of perfection supersede any
that your boss just placed on you. You see, we are the boss and the employee.
2.
We are always “on the job”
When you are an entrepreneur,
we are always working. We might be away from our office, even out on a date
with our spouse, and something will remind us of something we need to get done
or create an entirely new idea that we need to explore more. Too often, my
husband has rolled over at 3am only to catch me sending myself an email
regarding something I just thought of that I know I will forget when I get up
in the morning. Little triggers throughout everyday life catch us off guard
and, for most people, they can just dismiss it and let it go. Afraid we might
miss out on some great new display at the store, or looking for ways to
improve a process, is a never-ending task for the owner of the company.
3.
Some days, we just need a good cry
Believe it or not, some days
are harder than others. Sometimes, we aren’t even sure why, but we know we will
feel better afterward. It’s not because we aren’t tough or want to quit. It’s
because we are human. Working so hard on something, day in and day out is
emotionally exhausting. It wears on us and we carry it with us, even if we
think it’s not there. The feeling of being overwhelmed can drain every ounce of
energy we woke up with and will stress us out more than any deadline given to
us in a traditional job. If the tears don’t come, sometimes a quick escape to
have a beer or two with a friend works just as well.
4.
Business is personal
People have said that
“business is just business.” But every business has been built and created
because of a dream or vision. Someone thought of it before it became a reality.
That makes it personal. We created something that didn’t exist before and we
built it into what you see today. The roads we have taken may have been the
right ones that included being at the right place at the right time and other
roads included mistakes we wish we had known better never to have taken. So
every decision, every act, every thought brought into a business comes from
someone…and that someone is more often than not the business owner.
5.
We celebrate the little success
Most of us didn’t start our
own businesses to win some great award or make a million dollars in our first
year. We face many hurdles and take more chances than anyone else. We know
what’s at stake. We know the amount of effort and time we have committed to
building this business, so the little things that move us forward in the
direction of those same goals are ones we cherish. Maybe they aren’t something
most consumers notice right away, but we know we did something pretty exciting.
Those small little validations that come our way become treasured moments and
sometimes, those dates become celebrated anniversaries for years to come.
6.
We don’t sleep well
In some cases, sleep might
even be optional. We are the first one to arrive and the last one to leave.
Even after we head home, we are bombarded with work we just didn’t get done.
When we aren’t hanging out with customers, meeting potential clients, or doing
“grunge” work, we might just want to steal a quick 20-minute power nap. Getting
to bed after 11pm and up by 5am, every day will take its toll on our minds and
bodies. Some of our worst habits are a result of not taking care of ourselves
and getting enough sleep just doesn’t make it on the “To Do” list for the day.
Right? Sleep? We have too much to do to waste our time sleeping.
7.
We have great support
There is no way any
entrepreneur could do what he or she does without the support of great people.
Whether those are family or friends, knowing we have people who encourage our
dreams and cheer for us, no matter what kind of a day we are having, reminds us
of what it matters to keep moving forward. Sometimes that support comes from
investors, the loan officer at the bank, or your neighbors in the same strip
mall. Our business could not keep growing and expanding if people didn’t
believe in us. We don’t always tell you, but we are ever grateful and humbled
every day.
The people who choose to take
their dream and make it something real will always inspire the rest of the
world for a variety of reasons. It takes a tremendous amount of courage to
become an entrepreneur. The commitment to moving forward, picking yourself back
up, and trying something new is extraordinary in itself. Believing in one’s
ability and skill takes great faith and amazing hope. However, once you choose
that lifestyle, it changes you. Maybe not at first. Maybe you don’t even notice
it. Maybe you can’t explain it. A room full of entrepreneurs will always have
one thing in common and that elite group always understands what it takes to
own and run your own business.
So, if you are an
entrepreneur, I get it. I totally get it.
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