Saturday, October 1, 2016

PERSONAL SUCCESS SPECIAL..... 9 Things the Most Successful People Do Every Day

9 Things the Most Successful People Do Every Day

Dany Garcia, Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson's manager and business partner, on goals, decision making, professional relationships... and achieving more than you ever thought possible.


I'm fortunate to know a number of incredibly successful people. I always learn at least one thing from conversations with them: a tip, a strategy, a new approach... there's almost always one thing I can apply to my life.
But this time I walked away wondering what hit me.
After I got off the phone with Dany, I immediately started to rethink my entire approach to my goals, to my business, to how I make decisions... I can honestly say I will never again look at those aspects of my life -- or my level of productivity -- in the same way.
And I feel sure you won't either.
Dany Garcia is the founder of The Garcia Companies, a talent and media management holding company that oversees Seven Bucks Productions, a company she co-founded with management client and business partner Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson to manage brands, talent, and projects.
Clearly, she knows what she's doing: at an estimated $64 million in earnings this year,The Rock is Hollywood's highest-paid actor.
And if that's not enough, she's also a professional bodybuilder and a wife and mother. (See what I mean about productivity?)
To make it easier I created the numbered headings that appear in bold; text under each are Dany's words:
1. Always think about your audience or customers -- and about yourself -- before you start anything.
A lot of people in the entertainment business start with a genre. We work in a different way.
First we think about whether one of our core team members get really excited about the project. Is there something we experienced, something we lived... does it speak to the culture of the Seven Bucks production team... and will it help us not just play the game but also change the way the game is played?
We try really hard to avoid one-off projects that won't allow us to grow.
Then we think hard about how the audience will experience it and how they will feel. It can be pure enjoyment, or historical perspective, or cultural shifts, or genuine emotions... but bottom line, will this project move people and make some type of difference in their lives?
If the answers to those two questions are yes, then we dive deeper into the project.
We're always looking for an authentic voice that we can relate to and that will speak to people. For example, with Clash of the Corps, I was a drum major, my brother and sister were drum majors...
When you find those things, it's easy for you to get excited about the opportunity.
2. Think of your business as a separate living entity.
The best projects and businesses are living entities. As entrepreneurs, we like to say our business reflects us, but a better approach is to treat your business as something separate that you have a passion for and want to see grow and flourish.
For example, the best movies are always made by people who aren't just looking for money but are genuinely invested in ideas and emotions and the purpose of the movie.
You need to be detached enough to be excited about the project and want to see it succeed, not just you. That's a very different approach compared to an ego-driven project.
One of Dwayne's keys to success is he can detach his ego completely and care solely about who has the best answers. He's extremely coachable: he's really coachable in wrestling, as an actor he's really coachable... he's totally detached to the ego side of decision making.
When you're talented and coachable and willing to find the best answer, no matter who has it or where it comes from... that's extremely powerful.
3. Find ways to lean in and double down on who you really are.
Say our client is an actor deciding whether or not to do a certain film. We don't just focus on the money. There are other things that may be more important to the client: a particular performance, building a relationship, getting an opportunity to extend social-media reach, getting the chance to grow and develop... there are many different ways to win.
As soon as we get to the essence of what a client likes and what they're invested in, we double down on that. We lean in to what our client needs. We don't try to change our clients to meet "what the industry wants."
When you try to change people, they're not fulfilled because they're moving away from who they really are. When you support who they are and help them express that, decisions are a lot easier to make.
Of course the same thing is true for everyone: when we know what we really want, choices become much more binary because each decision either takes you closer to your goals... or it doesn't.
4. Stay creative and flexible by always focusing on solutions.
Don't get too attached to a particular process because processes always change. What matters most is the ability to create solutions.
When you focus on solutions, you automatically become more flexible because you're constantly staying creative.
That's why we look for clients who want to have ownership; if something is created for you, and you're always being told what to do, you'll always feel at least somewhat insecure because you don't know how -- or why -- things happen. The people we work with look at things differently and are very open to doing things differently.
If you love processes, develop processes that help you find creative solutions. A rigid process won't always lead to a great outcome, but a search for solutions almost always will.
And never forget that unless a solution serves all of the other pillars in your life, it's really not a solution -- so keep searching.
5. Always think about building an enterprise, even if that enterprise is just you.
If we talk to a prospective client and they only want to work on television, they're probably not the best match for me because I look for people who also want to extend into film, or digital, or possibly start their own production company... I love building an enterprise.
I want to help our clients build a foundation that allows them to transition to other things -- and other solutions.
The same holds true for all of us. Whatever you decide to do should not exist in isolation but should be a piece of a larger puzzle.
Don't think about laying a single brick: think about building a foundation.
6. Don't pitch -- develop solutions for other people's needs.
The standard way people pitch is to walk into a room where there is no relationship and present an idea. It should come as no surprise that few pitches are successful.
Instead I spend a lot of time trying to understand what the networks or studios need. My goal is to always present something that makes the best sense for them. We don't just want to advance Seven Bucks, we want to advance our partners. We see the people we work with as partners with whom we will try to do something special.
So don't focus on what you need. Before you walk into any room, make sure you know what the people in that room need. That way there's never a cold entry.
And that way your pitch actually becomes a conversation because you come in with a plan, you already know how you can work together... do a lot of work ahead of time so you can share what you're excited about and why it works for your potential partner.
Do enough work ahead of time and sometimes you won't even need to pitch.
But at the same time, stay detached. If in spite of all your hard work what you propose isn't accepted, be open. Say, "What are you guys looking for? How can we help?"
That creates a much better experience for everyone -- and builds a relationship that will make people excited to hear what you propose next time.
For example, we were working with HBO on the show Ballers. During that time we were also interested in doing the documentary that will debut this fall, Rock and a Hard Place.
We understand the HBO catalog and its level of quality and prestige. Rock and a Hard Place is a quality project, one we were working on with 44 Blue Productions, and one Dwayne was extremely invested in and was willing to commit to appearing on in front of the camera.
Going into the room we already knew it was a project that would help HBO and support the quality of work they seek. And we knew we could "eventize" the documentary, something we pioneered and are uniquely able to do. (Jeff: In a nutshell, "eventizing" is using social channels to post behind-the-scenes photos and videos from the set to create fan awareness long before a film opens -- and to show why the project matters so much to the talent, which helps fans become emotionally invested in the talent and the movie. And since The Rock has over 10 million Twitter followers, almost 60 million Facebook fans, and 65 million Instagram followers...)
Add all that up and Rock and a Hard Place was an easy conversation to have.
7. Seek to always make decisions at the most effective level.
I've worked hard to train myself to take action and make decisions at the most effective level possible. I want to make one decision that sets up 1,000 decisions. I want to make one decision that sets up three months of work.
When you make a big decision, many of the small decisions melt away because now the path is clear: your path, your team's path... you don't have to wonder or decide what to do because you know what to do.
8. Realize that work ethic will always trump talent... but you still have to work smart.
There are millions of talented people who are still stuck in the same place. Talent is important, but talent without work ethic is almost worthless.
But don't just blindly grind. Grinding without purpose is destructive. Something will give.
Work should flow and make sense and be almost elegant. That's when you know you're working hard at the right things.
9. Accept that you can't do it all -- but also that you can do a lot more than you think.
I've never been one to say you can do it all. I have no desire to do it all.
But I do have a desire to do what I want to do. My day supports doing things that I'm excited about. The key is to do things that support and serve the other things you do.
For me, bodybuilding serves my business: I'm a competitor so I eat very clean and I'm very strong and that gives me a sense of confidence and self-discipline that translates to any project. My business serves my family, as a provider and a role model, and bodybuilding does too... and my family gives me the support and motivation to be a better businesswoman and bodybuilder.
Ultimately, each goal and each pillar of my life serves the others.
When your goals don't serve each other you will always feel overwhelmed. When you consider an opportunity, make sure it serves where you want to go and where you want to be. If it doesn't, pass on it.
Sometimes saying no can define an actor's career; the same is true for all of us.
BY JEFF HADEN

http://www.inc.com/jeff-haden/9-things-the-most-successful-people-do-every-day.html?cid=em01014week38a

TRAVEL / JAPAN SPECIAL ......50 Great things to do in Tokyo Japan

50 Great things to do in Tokyo Japan

1. Have breakfast sushi at the Tsukiji Fish Market
2. Watch a show at the Kabuki Theater in Ginza
3. Get a beautiful view of the city from the top of the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Offices
4. Get squashed in the metro during rush hour in the Tokyo Metro
5. Visit the spirits of the Emperors in the Meiji Jingu-Shrine
6. Catch the large Sanja Matsuri festival in Asakusa, and marvel at the crowds and the mikoshi.
7. Watch the fascinating mix of Japan and Brazil at the Asakusa Samba Festival
8. Visit the larger replica of the Eiffel Tower at the Tokyo Tower
9. Get a great view of the Rainbow Bridge and the Tokyo Tower from Odaiba
10.             Soak your worries away at the Oedo Onsen
11.             Have a great meal and avoid the touts in   Roppongi
12.             Marvel at the massive “city in a city” at Roppongi Hills or Tokyo Midtown Project
13.             Shop for traditional goods and enjoy some spiritual zen at the Asakusa Sensoji Temple
14.             Feel the flow of a sea of people at the Hachiko Crossing in Shibuya
15.             Watch the trends of new fashion and statement in Harajuku
16.             Shop for the latest in electronic gadgets in Akihabra
17.             Get all your home and kitchen goods in Kappabashi
18.             Enjoy the beautiful cherry blossoms with all your new friends in Ueno Park
19.             Take a step back in time to the old wooden houses and temple sin Yanaka. Be sure to check out the temple of the 47 Ronin as well.
20.             Wander through the lovely cemetery in Akasaka
21.             Watch the people do choreographed dances in Yoyogi Park
22.             View history at the Japanese National Museum in Ueno
23.             Watch a Sumo Tournament (held 3 times a year in Tokyo) at the stadium in Ryogoku
24.             While in Ryogoku be sure to check out the fantastic Edo-Tokyo museum and see the transition of Tokyo over the centuries.
25.             Watch the locals go out in their red light district in Kabukicho. There is more to the place than just that
26.               Marvel at the large buildings in the skyscrapper district of Shinjuku
27.             Shop till you drop in the expensive store of Ginza
28.             If you love gardens be sure to check out the lovely ones from several different cultures in Shinjuku Gyoen
29.             Enjoy an intimate night out in Golden Gai in Kabukicho.
30.             Test drive the latest Toyota vehicle at the Toyota Mega Web in Odaiba
31.             Take a lesson in Tokyo’s Imperial Past at the Yasukuni Shrine.
32.             View some of the most beautiful swords and buy some too (or a nice replica) at the Japanese Sword store in Toranomon
33.             Shop for beautiful Japanese trinkets at the Oriental Bazaar in Omotesando. The same goods in many other stores for less cost!
34.             Ride Rollercoasters and other rides at the Tokyo Dome City.
35.             Get out of the city for some fresh air at Mount Mitake
36.             Go where the Japanese go on first dates and visit a beer museum in Ebisu
37.             Sing Karaoke with your friends in a Karaoke booth. Or better yet make some new friends and go.
38.             Get a view inside the palace, or at least the part that you can visit in the Imperial Palace East Gardens
39.             View the Tokyo Bridge (Nihonbashi) and see where all distances were measured from in old Japan in Nihonbashi
40.             Take a view of the old and beautiful Railway station at the Tokyo Central Railway Station in Maranouchi
41.             Get some of the most beautiful views of the cherry blossoms along the water in Chidorigafuchi
42.             Try to get a view of Godzilla in Hibiya. He may not be as imposing as you remember
43.             Listen to the hum of the machines and try to win too at one of the many pachinko parlors across the city
44.             Recall the great shogun Tokugawa at the Toshogu shrine in Ueno. Then head north to Nikko to pay your respects
45.             Enjoy the wonder and imagination of Miyazaki and his movies at the Ghibli Museum in MItaka
46.             Sample great food at an Izakaya restaurant anywhere in this great city. Better yet treat it like tapas and try several places.
47.             Shop for your child or your inner child at Kiddy Land in Omotesando
48.             If you love photography, check out the photography mega stores of Yodabashi Camera or Bic Camera at various locations in the city
49.             Catch a baseball game and sing for your favorite players.  Two great teams are in Tokyo the Yakult Swallows and the Yomiuri Giants.
50.             View one of the newest attractions the Tokyo Sky Tree, and get an amazing view over the city.

by Anwar

MANAGER/ LEADER SPECIAL .....6 Habits Of Trustworthy Leaders

6 Habits Of Trustworthy Leaders

The people in your office may not trust you as much as you think they do. Here's how to win them over.

Do the people in your office trust you? Maybe not as much as you think they do.
Consulting firm EY released its Global Generations 3.0 research which found that less than half of full-time workers between the ages of 19 and 68 place a "great deal of trust" in their employer, boss, or colleagues. Another recent survey from Globoforce’s WorkHuman Research Institute found that 80% of employees trust their colleagues, but only 65% trust senior leaders in their companies.
That’s a problem. EY’s research also found that low levels of trust majorly influences employees to look for another job (42%), work the minimum number of hours required (30%), and be less engaged and productive (28%).
Earning the trust of your team has real bottom-line benefits, says Dennis Reina, cofounder of Reina, a trust-building consultancy and author of Rebuilding Trust in the Workplace: Seven Steps to Renew Confidence, Commitment and Energy. He points to one of his clients: an airline with a troubled operations team. Lack of trust, marked by infighting and poor communication, was making the team ineffective. In a year, Reina’s team raised the level of trust in the department by 51 points, according to a post-test they did. The department saved $1 million in strategic planning costs because they were able to work well together and cut the planning time down to one-third of previous requirements, he says.
There are a number of simple, straightforward actions that build trust, Reina says. Here are six simple tactics that work.
Few actions ruin your trustworthiness faster than breaking your word, Reina says. Doing what you say you’re going to do reinforces the perception of your character. If circumstances change and you’re unable to do so, explain why with as much detail and context as possible so all parties understand the reason for the change. When you’re consistent with your word, people know they can depend on you.

Leaders are often counseled to give specific direction and communicate clearly, but context is also important, Reina says. When people understand why you’re asking them to take on a difficult challenge or a task they’d rather not do, help them understand the importance of what you’re asking. Seeing how their role fits into a bigger picture and is valued helps them understand and trust the organizational vision, which can help foster greater trust in both the company and its leaders. Plus, transparent cultures are good for business.

When you’re interacting with your team members, pay attention and focus on the conversations and dynamics, says Tara A. Goodfellow, managing director of Athena Educational Consultants, Inc. Listen to what matters to your employees and let them know that you are actually hearing and considering what they’re saying. If you’re distracted or unfocused, you risk making them feel like you’re insincere, which will erode trust.
"If you don’t get to know your employees and what motivates them, it’s really hard to build that trust," she says.
Leaders and organizations that welcome varied input and feedback are more trustworthy. The EY study found that 38% of respondents say that a diverse environment is a "very important" determinant of trust. In this context, diverse environment means that it "strives to recruit, retain, and promote diverse people with all differences including gender, country of origin, and thinking style," according to the survey results.
You’re going to make mistakes and there are going to be things you don’t know, so ask questions, admit when you’re wrong, and, when appropriate, make amends, says Timothy G. Wiedman, a former corporate manager and associate professor of management and human resources at Doane University. By showing a measure of vulnerability and willingness to admit when you’re wrong or need help shows that you’re human and helps people more easily relate to you, he says.
"A question that should have been asked—but wasn't—may have catastrophic consequences that will not soon be forgotten," he says. But when people know that you’re willing to get the answers you need instead of faking it, they’ll trust you more, he says.
Employees will trust you most when they feel you’re looking out for them, Reina says. Encourage feedback—even when it’s difficult to hear—and create an environment where they feel secure. When they are having challenges at work, provide the support, training, or resources they need to improve. And if they’re facing an unfair or otherwise disruptive situation, go to bat for them to make it right.
"People are forgiving if they know that their leaders—particularly their senior leaders—are trying," he says. "If they know that their senior leaders are being straight with them and they have [the employees’] as well as the company's best interest in mind, they’re more likely to trust."
GWEN MORAN 
https://www.fastcompany.com/3063754/work-smart/6-habits-of-trustworthy-leaders?utm_source=mailchimp&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=fast-company-weekly-newsletter&position=7&partner=newsletter&campaign_date=09232016


STRESS MANAGEMENT SPECIAL ....Coping with the Stress in Your Life

Coping with the Stress in Your Life

Stress Is The Biggest Cause Of Sick Time In The Economy Today
Most people are used to dealing with a certain amount of stress each day and they find that they can handle this well. But when the stress level rises and becomes too much to handle then you are putting your health at risk. Is there an effective Stress Management Methodology?
Too much stress is not good for you either mentally or physically. Signs of stress include loss of appetite, sleepless nights, weight loss and loss of energy. In turn this makes you feel more irritable and unhappy causing outbursts at work and home. If the cause of the stress is not dealt with then the situation steadily becomes worse.
If stress at work is making you feel sick or unable to do your job properly then it is time to take some type of action. If the problem is too much of a work load then talk to your supervisor or manager about it. They just may not realize that they have put too much on your plate. Don’t worry about feeling incapable of doing your job. Explain to them that you just cannot get through everything each day. Once they are made aware of the situation they can have another worker help you out or re-assign job duties. Sometimes all it takes is to speak up and make the problem known.
Whatever the cause of your stress is it must be dealt with. If it is a relationship issue then face it, otherwise your health will just deteriorate and possibly turn into major health issues.
You may be finding that juggling a job, a house and your children is becoming difficult. Then ask for help or see what things can be left until the weekend. If you are feeling overwhelmed by everything that you have to do each night let something slide. Will it matter if you don’t clean up for one night? You might be better off taking the time to talk to your spouse or take a nice warm bath.
Delegating tasks both at home and work is vital to save your sanity. Stress is one of the main causes of heart attacks and you don’t want to become a statistic. Instead get your kids to help out more at home and make a to-do list for each family member. Assign a young child to help clean their bedroom and put their clothes into the laundry basket.
Once you have announced that you need help you may be surprised who comes to your rescue. If you don’t say anything no-one will know and your life will continue to be stressful.


ENTREPRENEUR SPECIAL,...... FOUNDER who failed, learned, and got back up on feet 5. VISHAL

FOUNDER who failed, learned, and got back up on  feet
5. VISHAL

'We're looking to pay back our investors'
Vishal BM founded Bengaluru's first bike taxi, Hey Bob, in 2014 but shut down a few months ago after it ran out of cash. At its peak, Hey Bob had 200 bike taxis and 1,000 rides a day. It raised angel funding from high net worth individuals, but could not raise further rounds. Vishal now works with Giftxoxo as new products head.

"There are no regrets as investors had lost faith after Uber and Ola entered the market with subsidised rates. We tried moving from a consumer business to a business-to-business model, but it was too late and we ran out of cash. We were lean with just seven employees, including founders, and ran an efficient operation but investor sentiment was down. We sold our technology to four companies. We will get royalties and hope to pay back our investors. All the founders had sunk a chunk of savings into it. I got married last year and there was pressure from the family to get a regular corporate job. After we shut down, friends and family offered us money, but it would have been risky. We needed a big seed round to challenge deep-pocketed rivals."
Shalina Pillai, Anand J & Ranjani Ayyar  |  TNN  | 

ALCOHOL SPECIAL .......This alcohol substitute could get you drunk without the hangover

This alcohol substitute could get you drunk without the hangover
Thanks to science, you may soon be able to get drunk without feeling the effects the next morning.
A British scientist and longtime drug researcher has developed an alcohol substitute that still gives imbibers that sought-after buzz without the unsavory side effects of a hangover the next day. More importantly, at least from a public-health perspective, the substitute could also reduce instances of alcoholism and eliminate the damage that alcohol toxins have on bodily organs.
Oh, and it doesn’t have calories.
Cheers!
Alcarelle is the brainchild of David Nutt, a neuropsychopharmacology professor at Imperial College London and former adviser on substance abuse to the British government. It’s the brand name for a pair of alcohol substitutes that contain chemical compounds, which Nutt calls “alcosynths,” that mimic the fun of alcohol without the consequences.
Alcarelle has not undergone a regulatory or scientific peer review, Nutt said.
Nutt has pursued patents for roughly 90 chemical compounds that have the effect of knocking a couple back, and two of those lab creations have already been tested in humans. They could come to a bar near you if his newly formed company, also called Alcarelle, can raise the money needed to bring it to market, he said. The substitute would be sold as a liquid and added to your favorite cocktail or nonalcoholic beverage in lieu of vodka, rum, gin or other libations.

“I’ve gone from this stage of being just me, the mad scientist, to having business partners,” Nutt said in a phone interview. “They’re the people who are hopefully going to get me the investors.”
The various compounds that Nutt has developed work in one of two ways. Some replicate the direct effects of alcohol, specifically affecting the area of the brain that makes you feel loose but not the area that makes you fall-down drunk. Others mimic the indirect effects of alcohol, altering your serotonin or dopamine levels so that you might feel happier or more energetic.
Researchers can also engineer the chemical compounds so that their effect on the brain maxes out after so many drinks, reducing the desire to drink excessively and the risk of alcohol poisoning or blacking out, he said.
“My ambition would be for my grandchildren to never be exposed to alcohol,” Nutt said.
Tackling the harmful effects of alcohol has been Nutt’s focus since his days as a doctoral student in the 1970s. It was also part of his work during a stint in the 1980s as clinical science chief in the National Institutes of Health’s alcohol abuse and alcoholism division. The challenge, he said, is that alcohol is fundamentally toxic to the human body. Indeed, health professionals have long warned that excessive and prolonged alcohol consumption can be detrimentalto the brain, heart and liver, among other organs.
So 10 years ago, Nutt authored a paper for the British government calling for greater research into alcohol alternatives.
“Over the last couple of years, this research has come to some fruition. We now have found substances that can do what alcohol does in terms of giving people a relaxing experience and social experience, but without having the downsides of anger and aggression and addiction,” Nutt said.
By Steven Overly 
(Kate Patterson for The Washington Post)

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/innovations/wp/2016/09/28/this-alcohol-substitute-could-get-you-drunk-without-the-hangover/?wpisrc=nl_rainbow&wpmm=1